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Miranda Vows: Commissioner Milissa Holland and Undersheriff O’Brien Will Marry April 21

January 16, 2012 | FlaglerLive | 20 Comments

Power principals: Milissa Holland, left, and David O'Brien, with his back to the camera, with Palm Coast Mayor Jon Netts--who will be marrying them--and Flagler County Sheriff Don Fleming, seen here before December's bed races in Flagler Beach. (© FlaglerLive)

They had the right to remain silent, knowing that anything they said could and would be used to needle their privacy. But WNZF’s David Ayres went Barbara Walters on David O’Brien Friday and exerted a confession, on live radio, out of Flagler County’s under-sheriff, without even reaching for the waterboard: O’Brien will marry Milissa Holland, the county commissioner, in April.

What started as a traffic stop 20 years ago, when O’Brien pulled Holland over (allegedly for speeding) is culminating in an intimate outdoor ceremony at Hammock Dunes on April 21. Then it’s off to Paris for their honeymoon. Let the clichés about Flagler County’s most prominent power couple begin.

“David is a fantastic person,” Holland said today. “He has made a huge commitment to Flagler County, as I have, so it certainly lends to a lot in common. Were both passionate about similar causes, and we both laugh a lot and love life, so it was a very easy decision.”


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It had been an open secret. Holland and O’Brien have been inseparable for about a year, appearing at innumerable public events together, but never with adolescent effusions. The odd man out at many of those functions was Jon Netts, Palm Coast’s mayor and Holland’s mentor and closest public ally for many years. They appeared inseparable at many functions until the O’Brien era.

Netts, of course, will be marrying Holland and O’Brien.

They moved in together several months ago. They had no intention of making their wedding plans public. At least not yet. But word began to circulate, and Ayres, who has ways of making people talk, couldn’t resist making O’Brien—Ayers’ guest on Free For All Fridays last week—squirm. An audibly uncomfortable O’Brien played along, up to a point.

“She’s going to be mad at you, David,” Ayers’ co-host Abby Romaine said, referring to Holland, after Ayres made the wedding announcement.

“I know, but this is talk radio, you know, we have to get a scoop on everything,” Ayres said.

“David did it, it was not me, Milissa,” Romaine said.

“I was going to say it’s not me neither,” O’Brien said. “Lucky thing she’s in Tallahassee today.” Holland didn’t hear the interview. O’Brien told her about it later in the day as she was driving down.

It’ll be O’Brien’s third marriage and Holland’s fourth. The pair is re-forming something of a Brady Bunch. They have six children between the two of them. O’Brien, 47, has three daughters—Chelsea and Kristen are grown, Brianna is 13. Holland, 40, has two sons, one of them grown, Tyler is going to be 17 this spring, her daughter Tory will soon be 16. The house, Holland said, “is full often actually between kids and their friends and other family members, it’s become a very active household.”


What of the potentials for conflicts of interest? As a county commissioner, Holland exerts direct oversight over the sheriff’s budget. As the sheriff’s office top administrator after Sheriff Don Fleming, O’Brien has a direct hand in formulating the budget. “David and I have a rule in our household,” Holland said. “Our rule is that we don’t discuss those sorts of things. In fact I’ve made some jokes with the sheriff about it just because of the fact that I take this position very, very seriously, as I have for six years, and I don’t want to, nor will I ever, not only give the impression but create an issue in which it would be questioned in our discussions outside the public arena.” As for the power-couple cliché, Holland recalled something her father, the late James Holland—Palm Coast’s first mayor—used to say: “We all put our pants on the same way.”

Holland’s father will be on her mind. “I certainly think about my father often during this occasion, and will throughout that day,” Holland said of April 21. “I wish he could be here. Obviously it’ll be somewhat emotional for me, but no, it’s more about what we’re trying to make it: a celebration of us, where we are in our lives, and we wanted those around us who support us and are there day in and day out, have watched this relationship grow and progress as it is today.”

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Comments

  1. themontecito says

    January 16, 2012 at 3:08 pm

    He is a great guy and she deserves none better. Nice couple good luck to them both!

    Reply
  2. heather scofield says

    January 16, 2012 at 4:57 pm

    Congrats you two!!!

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  3. Cindy D. says

    January 16, 2012 at 8:49 pm

    Congratulations to David & Milissa!

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  4. Hannah says

    January 16, 2012 at 10:59 pm

    Congratulations You Two

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  5. Kya S. says

    January 16, 2012 at 10:59 pm

    Congratulations! :D

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  6. mellisa lee childers says

    January 16, 2012 at 11:41 pm

    Awwwww, congrats guys!

    Reply
  7. Lexie says

    January 17, 2012 at 12:46 am

    So happy for the couple. Congrats!

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  8. Donna Heiss says

    January 17, 2012 at 12:14 pm

    Very, very happy for the both of you!! I wish you much love and happiness!!

    Reply
  9. Morgan Y says

    January 17, 2012 at 6:11 pm

    Milissa is beautiful! Undersheriff O’Brien is one lucky man! Congratulations to you both!

    Reply
  10. Ambroz Europa says

    January 19, 2012 at 2:19 am

    Great people….and they make a beautiful couple. Congratulations to them!

    Reply
  11. motherof3 says

    January 19, 2012 at 8:35 am

    Isn’t this a conflict of interest? Milissa approves the Flagler County Sheriff’s Office Budget! Are we really OK with this? I feel one of them will need to resign there position.

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    • Chris M. says

      January 19, 2012 at 7:58 pm

      I really don’t think Mrs. Holland is one to do that. She has a personal life and work life. I don’t think she appreciates false accusations brought on to her, ‘mother of 3’ how would you feel if you were in her shoes? I’m sure you wouldn’t want that. Can’t there be a couple that love each other , love each other without there being a story behind it?

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  12. motherof3 says

    January 20, 2012 at 9:27 am

    This article clearly states “Holland exerts direct oversight over the Sheriff’s budget” this is not my words, it is written in this article!

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  13. Chris M. says

    January 20, 2012 at 10:01 pm

    Yes, but however. That does not mean she did it because of Major David O’Brien. She has accepted budgets for the Sheriffs Office long before she even met David.

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  14. LIL MONSTER says

    January 21, 2012 at 11:52 am

    Congratulations! Wishing you a wonderful journey as you build your new life together.

    Reply
  15. palmcoaster says

    January 21, 2012 at 1:34 pm

    I remember well back when Sheriff Fleming and his second in Command Look, took over our law enforcement, Junior Commissioner Melissa Holland and them two could not see eye to eye. Specially on the hearings of the first budget presented by the new Sheriff. If you look in the picture above Fleming’s body language speaks for itself. Not so much our commissioner’s any longer. Things have changed.

    Reply
  16. John Boy says

    January 22, 2012 at 8:04 am

    Typical Republicans, seven (7) marraiges between them, family values my ass.

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    • FlaglerLive says

      January 22, 2012 at 6:32 pm

      John boy, they’re both registered Democrats, though in fairness to them they’ve never been heard prattling on about “family values” (let alone score political points off the crock) like, say, the Gingrich types who seem to be catching floridians’ wanting imagination of late.

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    • motherof3 says

      January 23, 2012 at 10:23 am

      Johnboy you are right …although they are Democrats, this is certainly not the type of roll models our county needs. We need stability and strong family values.

      Reply
  17. palmcoaster says

    January 23, 2012 at 12:51 pm

    @motherof3; I agree we need lots of stability and family values, but please not the Gingrich type. I am concerned also about conflict of interest.

    Reply
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