At least three Pride Month events have been cancelled in Florida cities amid a broadening legalization of government hostility. But Flagler Pride is forging ahead with its fourth annual Flagler Pride Fest, a three-day event that will include drag shows at a local pub, a family-focused day of activities and entertainment at Palm Coast’s Central Park, and a vigil in commemoration of the victims of the Pulse massacre in 2016.
The event drew some 200 people in its inaugural year, hundreds more in 2021, and around 800 people last year, with expectations that it would keep growing. The event drew 16 vendors last year, and had to start turning away vendors this year after registering 27, including five food trucks. The eight-hour Central Park portion of the festival capped by the customary two-hour drag shows. Those drew big acts, big crowds and big cheers (though last year the drag show was rained out at the park, and also had to be moved indoors).
Not possible anymore. At least not at Central Park in the open. SB1438, the bill Gov. Ron DeSantis signed into law on May 17, eliminates a parent’s right to take children of any age up to 18 to a drag performance, which the law inaccurately conflates with “sexually explicit adult performances.”
The Saturday event in Town Center will have plenty of family-friendly activities, music, dance, comedy and vendors even without the customary drag shows. Vendors include crafts, local businesses, service organizations, advocacy organizations, including Equality Florida.
The festival was to run from noon to 8 p.m., with the last two hours devoted to the drag event. Instead, it’ll be from 1 to 5 p.m., with the drag event tucked off to the night before, at Coquina Brewery in Flagler Beach, from 8 p.m. on. (See the full list of events below.)
“Whether or not we agree or disagree with the law, we still want to make sure that we don’t put the organization or anyone involved at risk,” Flagler Pride President Erica Rivera said. “We could have easily canceled like some of other pride events, but we decided that we wanted to work around it because we do care about the community. It is a bar after all. We don’t usually get many families trying to come here.”
Rivera is also the founder of the National Care Foundation, an advocacy organization for survivors of domestic and sexual violence. The foundation has been hosting Pride Nights at Coquina Brewery the second Friday of every month, where a variety of LGBTQ-friendly talents are showcased, from prom night to drag shows to karaoke to bingo. So it was a natural fit for an evening of drag and burlesque performance, plus a drag king and a drag queen. Music and sound support is provided by Magik Audio, a lesbian-owned and operated company now based in Port Orange but with deep roots in Flagler. Some of the larger crowd at Pride Night have reached 100 people.
The Pulse Remembrance Vigil will still take place Sunday from 6 to 8 p.m. at Veterans Park in Flagler Beach.
The new law will not prevent people in drag from walking around the park on Saturday: it does not go as far as policing what people wear.
According to a legislative analysis of the new law, SB1438, an “adult live performance” is defined as “any show, exhibition, or other presentation that is performed in front of a live audience and in whole or in part, depicts or simulates nudity, sexual conduct, sexual excitement, specific sexual activities as those terms are defined in s. 847.001, F.S., lewd conduct, or the lewd exposure of prosthetic or imitation genitals or breasts.” Most drag shows don’t fit that definition, as even “prosthetic or imitation genitals or breasts” would not be lewdly exposed. But pubs and organizations that host drag shows are not taking chances. And in any case, when Rivera’s National Care Foundation hosts Pride Nights at Coquina, the audience is restricted to those 18 and over anyway. That was true even before the new law.
As Mark Satta, an assistant professor of philosophy at Wayne State University, wrote, “These legislative efforts have been accompanied by inflammatory rhetoric – not grounded in fact – about the need to protect children from ‘grooming’ and sexually explicit performances. Such rhetoric reveals that those seeking to restrict drag performances sometimes don’t understand what drag is or seeks to do.”
Still, the new law has chilled Pride Month. St. Cloud, Port St. Lucie and Tampa al cancelled Pride events. Tampa Pride on the River was one of the state’s largest when it was first held last year. Such laws have also mirrored other new laws that seem to take aim at minorities. The NAACP issued a formal travel advisory for Florida last month, warning that the state was “hostile to Black Americans” under DeSantis’s leadership.
Even in Flagler, Eryn Harris, who founded Flagler Pride and is the vice president of the non-profit, and Rivera, have noticed a difference in the climate this year. It’s not that they’ve experienced outright hate or hostility. That has generally been absent from Pride events, aside from the kind of derogatory comments the Flagler Pride booth at First Fridays in Flagler Beach has experienced from time to time. That’s been more along the lines of ideological disagreements that political parties of one side or another also experience. It’s not been aggressive hostility so much as opinionated contempt.
There will be three Flagler County Sheriff’s deputies at Pride Fest, security hired by the festival, and required for events that draw sizeable crowds.
Where Harris and Rivera have noted a more subtle difference is in the hesitancy of supporters, sponsors and volunteers to come right out from the beginning and embrace the event, as they have in the past. This year many have been more cautious, as if not wanting to stand out right away, like the dancers who don’t want to be alone on the dance floor. But once some trickled in, then others followed in larger numbers.
“Our board has had to carry a lot of the a lot of the efforts,” Harris said. “Although we have these challenges with the political climate and the new laws, I think people are afraid to be involved. But I think once we announce that, hey, we’re going to do this no matter what, then it’s like people started to come out of the woodwork and say, okay, let’s let’s do this. So I think it just took a little encouragement knowing that we’re still going to push forward for people to volunteer, whereas last year, there wasn’t that worry.” And despite the climate, the vendor list filled up.
But there are other, subtle but obvious snubs. Local governments typically devote the beginning of their council and commission meetings to proclamations supporting one cause or another, Women’s History Month, Black History Month, this or that heritage, and so on. Local governments have not quite initiated Pride Month proclamations.
Flagler Beach is the embracing exception. Harris was working this week with Flagler Beach Mayor Suzie Johnston to meet a meeting deadline for a proclamation to be read at Thursday’s City Commission meeting. Johnston will also be speaking at the vigil on Sunday. The Flagler Beach Fire Department will also be there, flying the Pride flag.
Rivera reached out to Palm Coast Mayor David Alfin, but through the local chamber organization, to read a proclamation at the Pride Event. She did not know if the message had been relayed to the mayor and had not heard back. Alfin said today that he had not been contacted, and was speaking at an event at the Portuguese Club on Saturday.
Harris came up with the idea of a Pride Fest in 2020 just three weeks before hosting it. “The initial idea, which is still the idea of Flagler Pride, is that there was something missing in the community, that there was really nothing in Flagler County to be offered for LGBT people,” Harris said. “Whether it be for children, teens, young adults, adults, elderly, there’s nothing. So even just having the one festival a year is something for people to come and enjoy, and do and then Flagler Pride ended up turning into multiple events.”
Flagler Pride then joined forces with Rivera’s Foundation-hosted events and the original organizer of the Pulse vigil to produce what is now Pride Fest. They also host monthly LGBTQ networking events in Flagler, a county that doesn’t lack for networking events, but until recently had none friendly to LGBTQ businesses.
“This is like proof that collaborations work and you don’t have to compete with other people in the community that have the same vision as you do,” Rivera said.
Laurel says
I wanna go! :) Maybe see ya there.
Actually, it’s hard to believe Ronnie gets laid any more. Maybe that’s why he has such a crabby face and attitude all the time.
Kory says
Praying for Rain.
me says
His wife runs the show. He just takes orders from her. They both have a lot of hate inside of them, discriminating their religious beliefs into his political career, NOT RIGHT.
Michael Cocchiola says
FU*K DeSantis and all of his mole rats. Come and celebrate Pride Month. Come and show that fascist that you are not afraid. Come and show acceptance and tolerance for up to 10 percent of the American population.
Come and stick your middle finger to hate and fear. We are all Americans and every one of us has the same constitutional rights. Don’t let DeSantis kill the American dream.
Deborah Coffey says
We’ll be there…and bringing friends, too!
Bartholomew says
Also send him a postcard from Disney!
BigPapa says
Lol 😆.
“Come and stick your middle finger to hate and fear”
Did you even read your own post?
jake says
Somewhat of a hypocrite, aren’t you Mike? You ask for “acceptance and tolerance”, yet every time you comment, you display none of this, it’s always about hate.
The says
You can’t possibly think we can’t see through your bs. You’re mad at their intolerance for intolerance? Why do you defend actual hate speech? Don’t answer because it’s a rhetorical question. Another bad faith actor.
coyote says
I’m not a member of any of the LBGTQ+ groups, but I know people who are, and You Know What? They’re all nice, regular people that I am not at all scared of, ashamed of, or threatened by.
I probably won’t attend as I don’t get out for anything much anymore, but (as another You Know What?) … their festival isn’t gonna hurt me at all, so go for it and have fun.
Bailey’s Mon says
Yes! Going to go and support this event! We all need a little Pride in our life and in our Community.
Eileen Marie Gernet says
About time. I hope it works out OK. I am proud of our community leaders and Flagler citizens in general. It is obvious our community leaders wish to represent all people in our community.
We welcome you.
Kat says
I attended the last two events, and they were very positive and family friendly. The only reason I’m not going on Saturday this year is because I have to make an airport run smack in the middle of the day but I will be wearing my Ally colors. I would like the vendors to know that during the previous festivals, I noticed you and pledged to support your businesses whenever I had the opportunity. Even though I can’t attend in person this year, I will be looking at all the coverage and remembering that particular aspect, because one of our biggest powers is the power of our purchases.
Josh says
You won’t catch me within 5 miles of that. Might just leave the county for the day.
DAVE says
Probably a good idea. You might “catch” the gay.
The Sour Kraut says
Not my scene but hope all the attendees have a great time. I also hope all the narrow minded, Desantis loving, a-holes stay at home instead of trying to make trouble.
BigPapa says
Humm, “narrow minded”
you might want to re-read your post….
The says
Oh please, get out of here with that bad faith comment. You can’t claim intolerance against intolerance. This isn’t a simple disagreement, this is about human rights. “You’re being mean, too!” vibes lol. You literally “debate” (actually no, that would be insulting to actual debate to put you on that level) like an 8 year old.
BigPapa says
Please quote me where I said anything hateful
For Real says
DeSantis hate campaigns will never get him in the White House, thank goodness. He isn’t even handling issues in Florida and for him thinking he is qualified to be in the Oval Office, he is so so wrong.
Pat Stote says
I have gay friends and also gay relatives.
They all live productive lives, and they are all an asset to the communities they live in.
If you don’t want to take part in the parade then just stay home or do whatever you would do at that time.
BigPapa says
In my opinion, it sounds like you do not live around here.
People here will do what they normally do, and that is not burning down buildings or looting stores. They will be in their pools, grilling with neighbors or at the beach etc…
You might want to stop listening/watching one view.
Whathehck? says
BigPapa knows it all and will give us the times and dates when Flagler Beach was burned down and its stores looted during pride week.
By the way BigPapa you may want to reread your comments.
BigPapa says
Lol, you called me BigPapa. Why would I need to re-read my comments. Did I say something hateful? If so, please quote it…Have a good day my friend.
BigPapa says
Crazy how much acceptance and tolerance I see here (NOT). Especially from the people who seem to want to preach it, SMH.