With the U.S. Supreme Court considering same-sex marriage, President Barack Obama re-elected on a platform that included it, and the first openly gay lawmakers taking their seats in Tallahassee, gay voters say it’s been a winning year.
“We’ve made a lot of progress, but we still have a long way to go,” said Rep. David Richardson, a Miami Beach Democrat, and one of two openly gay lawmakers elected this year – the first in Florida’s Legislature.
The 2012 election saw Florida become one of seven states to break that barrier. Nationwide, lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender candidates were elected to the U.S. Senate and House, and dozens to state legislatures.
Richardson, a 55-year-old forensic accountant, credits redistricting and the open seat in House District 113 for his win. He said that for all the voters he met during the campaign, none asked him about his sexual orientation, although it was reported by local news media.
“In this area, people maybe don’t care so much about someone’s sexual orientation,” he said.
Richardson was sworn in on Nov. 20 along with Rep. Joe Saunders, an Orlando Democrat and the field director of Equality Florida, an LGBT advocacy group. Saunders had led the 2008 campaign against Florida’s Amendment 2, the constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage and civil union, which passed 62 percent to 38 percent.
Saunders is also a veteran of clashes over local ordinances statewide, including a successful effort earlier this week to add LGBT protections for faculty and students in the Orange County schools. He was the campaign manager for “Equality is Gainesville’s Business,” which prevented the repeal of LGBT protections in 2009.
A Nov. 20 photo of Saunders on the House floor with his partner, Donald Rupe, appeared widely on the Internet after Saunders posted it on his Facebook page. “It was the first time…a member stood on the floor with their partner,” Saunders wrote. “It was a moment I’ll remember for the rest of my life.”
It was memorable for Susan Gage, too.
Now a massage therapist and LGBT activist, Gage was for 12 years a public radio reporter. She hadn’t been inside the Capitol since leaving that job – until the day of Saunders’ and Richardson’s swearing-in.
“Nobody questioned me when I fell in with the reporter pack to gain access to the House floor,” she blogged afterward. “I gave Joe a big, long hug, and promised him that the community was there to help him however he needed it.
“Such an amazing accomplishment as having out-and-proud members of the Florida House is a sign that ‘the times they-are-a-changin’.
“The number of times I would have to interview members of the Senate who were highly homophobic and the things that they would say to my face – I’d have to take it,” Gage said. “That was pretty rough. I hope that some of the rhetoric will have to change now.”
But activists say the battle will continue.
Groups that oppose same sex marriage say they’ll continue that effort, but many deny they have a problem with gay people.
“Our issue is not so much with people that have a same-sex attraction,” said John Stemberger, president of the Florida Family Policy Council, a conservative Republican group that advocates against same-sex marriage and adoptions. “My issue is with people who identify with this socio-political movement: ‘gay.'”
An Orlando attorney, Stemberger clashed with Saunders as recently as Tuesday, debating LGBT protections at an Orange County School Board meeting that lasted until 1:30 a.m.
“There are many homosexual persons who just want to be left alone and just want to live their lives normally,” Stemberger said. “But what’s unfortunate, and what we aggressively oppose, is this notion of trying to transform society. And ‘gay’ as in-your-face, loud and proud, forcing everyone to buy into your assumptions about life and human sexuality. And if you don’t, we’re going to shout you down and call you a bigot.”
Stemberger said he realizes younger voters are more inclined to support same-sex marriage than older ones.
“I’m very concerned about the indoctrination of our youth, particularly in our public schools,” he said.
A Politico/George Washington University poll of 1,000 likely voters conducted Dec. 2-6 found that 63 percent of 18-to-29-year-olds support same-sex marriage, while just three in 10 seniors do. “Younger people, who tend to view this as a civil rights issue, overwhelmingly supported gay marriage,” Politico reported.
Stemberger said he’s been making his case to young people and recently talked to students in a law-magnet program at Orlando’s Boone High.
“They had never heard any arguments but pro-gay arguments…I had dozens and dozens of students say, ‘You know what, I went in against your position and I came out in favor.'”
On gay adoption, too, there has been a slow wearing-away of opposition.
In 1977, after Anita Bryant’s “Save Our Children” campaign in Miami, the Legislature passed a law prohibiting homosexuals from adopting. In 2004, it was upheld by the U.S. District Court of Appeals for the Eleventh Circuit. In 2010, Martin Gill, who was raising two foster children with his partner and wanted to adopt them, got a court to rule the law violated his equal protection rights; a state appeals court upheld the ruling, and Gov. Charlie Crist’s administration did not appeal.
On Thursday, Crist, changing his party affiliation to Democrat and expected by some to run for governor in 2014, said he regretted having signed Amendment 2, thereby putting Florida’s ban on same-sex marriage in the Constitution.
Saunders and Richardson say they’ll stand up for LGBT issues, but have wider agendas.
“People are going to see I’m a serious businessman,” said Richardson, who also is interested in children’s and elder rights. He managed the care for his mother, who had Alzheimer’s, for years before her death. “If people want to ask me about being gay, I’ll talk about that. If you want to talk to me about the budget, I’ll talk about that.”
“There are 160 people elected from 20 million to go to Tallahassee and represent the values and perspectives of the people of Florida,” Saunders said. “I think the LGBT perspective needs to be part of those debates, and I’ll do my best to represent those perspectives.”
Stemberger said even if Richardson and Saunders were to push LGBT legislation, they wouldn’t get the votes to pass it.
“They’re not going to change anything in the Florida Legislature in its current make-up,” he said. “So it’s probably wise for them to just try to blend in.”
Rep. Dennis Baxley, R-Ocala and chair of the House Judiciary committee, is also a former head of the Florida Christian Coalition. He said he “truly believe[s] that public policy should reflect support for the traditional family.”
“My views about public policy on that probably won’t be changing,” Baxley acknowledged. “At the same time, I welcome all people in the state of Florida to participate in this process. We’re here to look for good public policy with whoever the people choose to send.”
–Margie Menzel, News Service of Florida
Ben Blakely says
America the beautiful and swishy.
daveytickle says
The times-they are a-changin’.
Some things change for the good of all and some things change for the good of a few.
I’d like to ask all of you to look into your own closets (spend some time there) and then actually THINK before you speak.
I’m personally tired of reading about kids taking their own lives because of our (ALL OF US) homophobic views.
This country is so sick in so many ways OTHER than whether or not a kid is gay! Let’s let the kids grow up to be whatever they can be in whatever social situation they find themselves in. Please!
If it takes members of our elected hierarchy to see that this happens, then God bless them!
I’m not through bitchin’!
Merrill Shapiro says
This is a wonderful development and about time! It will be interesting to see how they are received by their fellow legislators! Bad enough, in Florida legislative circles, that they are Democrats! We need more Dems and more diversity!
NortonSmitty says
Personally I don’t care if they would rather hear a fat boy fart than a pretty girl sing, just go to Tallahassee and fight to keep us from getting… Republicaned. (I can’t say fucked here, can I?)
Geezer says
Maybe more Birkenstock sandal stores in Florida now. Comfortable shoes, and all that…..
"My Daily Rant" says
1) Republicians are not gay,well maybe a few.I think its a shame when people want to be judged by who they have sex with. I think this is disgusting they look like two sissys.
elaygee says
The only person who the writer could find oppossed to LGBT equality is the leader of a certified hate group?