
By Casey Ryan Kelly
When Secretary of Defense James Mattis addressed the intensification of U.S. combat operations against the Islamic State group in 2017, he assured the American public of his commitment to “get the strategy right” while maintaining “the rules of engagement” to “protect the innocent.”
Mattis’ professional tone was a stark contrast to Secretary Pete Hegseth’s remarks following the first days of the joint U.S.-Israeli combat operations in Iran.
On March 2, 2026, after bragging about the awe-inspiring lethality of U.S. “B-2s, fighters, drones, missiles,” Hegseth casually brushed aside concerns about long-term geopolitical strategy, declaring “no stupid rules of engagement, no nation-building quagmire, no democracy building exercise, no politically correct wars. We fight to win.”
Admonishing the press for anything less than total assent, he commanded, “to the media outlets and political left screaming ‘endless wars:’ Stop. This is not Iraq.”
Two days later, Hegseth gloated about “dominance” and “control,” while asserting that the preoccupation of the “fake news media” with casualties was motivated by liberal media bias and hatred of President Trump.
“Tragic things happen; the press only wants to make the president look bad,” he said. He dismissed concerns about the rules of engagement, declaring that “this was never meant to be a fair fight. We are punching them while they are down, as it should be.”
I’m a communication scholar who has studied MAGA rhetoric for a decade. I have observed how Hegseth and other officials in the second Trump administration refuse to abide by what recurring rhetorical situations – urgent public matters that compel speech to audiences capable of being influenced – typically demand of public officials.
The theme of this administration is that no one is going to tell it what to say or how to say it. It will be encumbered neither by norms nor the exigencies that compel speech in a democratic society.
The big man
When the U.S. goes to war, the public expects the president and the defense secretary to convince them of the appropriateness of the action. They do this by detailing the justification for military action, but also by addressing the public in a manner that conveys the seriousness and competence required for such a grave task as waging war.
But during the first week of the Iran war, Hegseth’s press briefings deviated from the measured tone expected from high-ranking military officials.
Hegseth flippantly employed villainous colloquialism – “they are toast and they know it,” “we play for keeps,” and “President Trump got the last laugh” – delivered with a combative tone that communicated masculine self-assurance.
Many observers were taken aback by his haughty tone, hypermasculine preoccupation with domination, giddiness about violence and casual attitude toward death.
During Trump’s first term, this penchant for rule-breaking was by and large isolated to the president, whose transgressions were part of his populist appeal.
Although Trump’s first cabinet members agreed on most political objectives, they attempted to rein in what they saw as the president’s more dangerous whims.
But with loyalty as the new bona fide qualification for administration officials, Trump’s second cabinet is populated with a large contingent of right and far-right media personalities like Hegseth, including Kash Patel, Sean Duffy and Mehmet Oz.
The anti-institutional ethos of far-right media explains why these officials refuse to conform to “elite” expectations and instead speak in a manner that is bombastic, outrageous and perverse.
Among them, there is little reverence for what they may perceive of as emasculating rules of tradition and politeness in a media marketplace where “owning,” “dominating,” and “triggering” your enemy is precious currency. Far-right media personalities are adept at commanding attention with showmanship and swagger.
Trump appears to have chosen Hegseth for precisely this reason: He performs the role of the big man to perfection.
‘Kill talk’
Hegseth’s language choices and petulant tone do not demonstrate an ignorance of what rhetorical situations demand of him; instead, they reflect a refusal to be emasculated by such cumbersome norms.
When making statements about the first week of the war, Hegseth grinned as he delivered action-movie one-liners, like “turns out the regime who chanted ‘Death to America’ and ‘Death to Israel’ was gifted death from America and death from Israel.”
Hegseth engaged in what is known as “kill talk,” a verbal strategy, typically directed at new military recruits, that denies the enemy’s humanity and disguises the terrible costs of violence. His repetition of words like “death,” “killing,” “destruction,” “control,” “warriors” and “dominance” framed violence in heroic terms that are detached from the realities of war.
In my view, Hegseth addressed the public as a squad leader addresses military recruits. Hegseth apparently delighted in dispensing death and elevating and glorifying war. He said virtually nothing of long-term strategy beyond “winning.”
In the MAGA media world, winning is really all that matters. If winning is the only goal, then war is, by profound inference, a game, a test of masculine fortitude.
This point was made clear when the White House posted a video that interspersed footage of airstrikes on Iran with “killstreak animation” from the popular video game Call of Duty: Modern Warfare. In the game, when a player kills multiple opponents without also dying, they are rewarded with the ability to conduct a missile strike to exterminate an opposing team. Again, this message gamifies violence and obscures the destructive toll of war.
Informed by the contemptuous hypermasculinity of far-right media culture, all this taboo behavior and glorified portrayals of death convey one fundamental message: When the public most needs explanation and justification for the actions of their government, the powerful owe the public neither explanation – nor comfort.
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Casey Ryan Kelly is Professor of Communication Studies at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln.






























Mothersworry says
With all his tough guy talk all the time one must remember that the truly tough guys don’t feel the need to tell you how tough they are. Hegseth is a buffoon with a big mouth, nothing more. Yes he served but for all intents and purpose’s he was a REMF, wasn’t a line officer.
Pogo says
Hey Casey, you get it
… puffed up homicidal little shits are a thing; here, there — anywhere. What says hypermasculinity better 72 brides for eternity? Wow, what a man.
https://search.brave.com/search?q=decrypting+the+hypermasculinity+of+jihad
Deborah Coffey says
It was a sickening speech delivered by the most incompetent person I can ever remember in the federal government…other than Donald J. Trump. They are two peas in a pod…vicious, vindictive, showmen, mentally and emotionally unstable little peas. Under their rule, we are not safe here in America from anything; not safe from the exploding cost of living, from foreign attacks, from disease, and from the continual stream of lies. Daily, they continue to destroy and disgrace our country.
Dennis C Rathsam says
What’s next on the liberal agenda? We,re using too many bombs? Democrats, dispise everyone of TRUMPS cabinet, what else is new….The real problem too all Democrates, is that TRUMPS winning.The world knew Iran was sponcering terror since the 70,s! After killing & maming American GI,s, Intercepting ships from other countries finally the end is near. How many US presidents turned the other cheek to these animals? Obama & Biden gave them millions, & for what…. more killings, more terror. TRUMP has done the world a favor, kick back & watch as the best, most powerful country in the world with the greatest fighting force, take out TERROR INC! Its like taking candy from a baby, Just like he did with Muduro. What better way to celebrate our 250 yr anniversary!
Mothersworry says
“The real problem is trumps wining?” You gotta be high!! Whats he won? He has this country so screwed up its crazy. His cabinet is a joke. He surrounded himself with clowns who are actually more incompetent that he is. He has managed to alienate our allies, they will probably never trust us again. The tariffs are a cluster that is costing everybody. Since you show a bit of concern for veterans of the 70’s yet you remain mute when he and that idiot Musk fired over 25,000 VA employees four or five months before he involved us in a regional war.If we are going to send them we must mend them, that is not just a saying on a T shirt. It is a obligation this country has if it is sending troops into harms way. Remember when he kidnapped a president? Under the guise of stopping all the drug and taking over that countries oil? How did that work out? Nothing changed! The oil companies told him to kiss off! All of the existing wells were junk mainly due to neglect.
Yup he’s a real winner…..
Willy James says
Your ignorance abounds! You sound like some bar fly passing out wisdom from your bar stool. What the hell do you know about war? Did you ever have to write a letter to a grieving parent? How about making a death call to a spouse of a fallen warrior? By the way, I never wore a baseball cap to a military funeral!
Those who think that attack on Iran is a good thing will soon change their minds when the body bags of fallen warriors start coming home in numbers. Trump and Hegseth are a matching pair…dumb & dumber. Trump’s knowledge of was acquired at the New York Military Academy. I have to laugh at Hegseth’s command and control expertise as a Army Major who never attend high level military schools that study tactics, logistics etc. He was a reserve Major with no real staff experience…JCS, DOD etc. Oh, heavens me, he was a FOX reporter…please!
Skibum says
The drunkard ex-fauxinfotainment nuze talking head Pete Hegseth play acting as macho man SecDef vs. the SNL funnyman Colin Jost playing SecDef Hegseth. No doubt about it… Colin Jost wins by a mile! Hegseth needs to go away and stumble back into the nearest bar, where he obviously is much more comfortable with the other drunkard no nothings.
Sherry says
Colin Jost for Secretary of Defense. . . he certainly couldn’t do any worse than Hegseth!
Has anyone noticed that trump’s “Department of War” is now being called the “Department of Defense” again?
BillC says
Hegseth is auditioning for the part of Johnny Rico in Starship Troopers II, the sequel.
PaulT says
Hegseth who has a medieval mindset is yelling ‘Cry Havoc’ with all that implies.